Thursday, December 12, 2019

November 2019

Early November marked the end of fall volleyball. Todd had another great run as coach, and Hazel loves the sport more than ever. She recruited several friends to play with her this season and had a blast. We can't wait for spring!



Hazel was invited to go to Great America theme park with some friends from school. She was gone for an entire Saturday and rode plenty of roller coasters. We missed her!


While she was away, Todd and I took Gemma and Jack to the skate park. Cool parents, right? Yeah, so cool that Todd tried some sweet moves and crashed. He hurt his wrist and has been wearing a brace for weeks now.


We took the kids and some of Hazel's buddies to the community college women's volleyball game so the girls could see what it looks like when the ball makes it over the net more than once or twice. They thought it was awesome.


Gemma is attempting to potty train Ginger. When she sees him preparing a hole in the dirt, she swoops in and takes him to the litter box. And holds him there. So far, no success. But it is hilarious! 



Gemma started ballet class and Hazel started violin lessons. Todd went up to Seattle for simulator training. Hazel had a few cavities filled. Todd spoke to Jack's Scout group about flying helicopters and helping people out through his work in the Army. I took Hazel to see the high school drama performance "The Puffs," a Hogwarts parody from the viewpoint of the Hufflepuffs. She thought it was the greatest. 

We took a fun road trip over Thanksgiving break. First stop was Lancaster, CA, to see our old friends Mitch and Jill Dabo. They managed the first apartment complex we lived in when we moved to Mountain View from BYU. We met at church and they pulled us into the funnest group of young couples. We had Monday night dinner group every other week, and took turns hosting. There were so many of us we only had the responsibility of hosting about twice a year. We made many good friends, several of which we are still in contact with now, nearly 15 years later. 



They've got five kids, and ours are sandwiched between them in ages, so the whole crew played together very happily. We spent the night and went to church with the Dabos the next day, before heading to our next destination: Williams, Arizona. 



Monday morning we visited a spot called Bearizona. It had a drive-thru area where you could see lots of big animals. Bears, obviously, but also burro, elk, bison, and our favorite, wolves. 



We drove the loop through the wolf area and had arctic and tundra wolves on every side of the van. The picture below shows one brushing up against our van, just like our cats brush up against our legs. They were howling at each other, which was so exciting. 



After experiencing the drive-thru portion of Bearizona, we were able to go to the walk-thru area, which was somewhat like a small zoo. We watched a Birds of Prey presentation, saw a jaguar up close through a window, enjoyed a petting zoo and saw lots of cute animals. 



Everyone's highlight was feeding the otters. We were actually able to toss sardines at them! The otters would swim up close or climb up onto these rock islands and stand and beg. It was the funniest thing! 






When we were done with Bearizona, we drove another hour north to the south entrance of Grand Canyon National Park. We arrived about an hour before sundown, which gave us time to walk to the rim and gaze into the vast canyon, trying to wrap our brains around the scale of the place. 




We planned to watch the sun set that first evening, but sadly, it was quite cloudy and actually started to snow while we were there looking in, so there wasn't much color or light change to observe, and it was quite cold. We headed back to the hotel to have dinner and play games. The snow also busted our plans to sneak out and see the stars in the middle of the night. 


The next day was freezing cold, but we had blue skies. We hiked the rim most of the day. The Grand Canyon truly is phenomenal. It's just so incredibly huge, and really beautiful from every viewpoint. 



We bundled up in everything we brought - thermals and fleece jackets and snow pants and puffy coats and hats and scarves - and had a really enjoyable day. 



We drove out the east side late in the afternoon and watched the sun set before leaving. Guys, it was worth waiting for! The pictures don't begin to do it justice.




We drove for several hours in the dark before getting to Aunt Laura's house in Cedar City. Most of our drive was quite desolate, going through deserts and Native American reservation land. We pulled to the side of the road about 9, 9:30 and soaked up the most amazing starlit sky together for several minutes. It was so beautiful.

We had a few days together with Laura and Tyler's family. Our kids loved spending time with their cousins. We spent the first night at Laura's house and then went to see her wedding venue, The Barn, which was all set up for a Festival of Trees charity they were hosting a few days later. Then we headed over to their cabin in Bicknell for the rest of the trip.

We had Thanksgiving dinner with Tyler's family on Thursday, and it started snowing during the meal. Big, fluffy snowflakes falling slowly onto the pine trees ... it was super picturesque. We took the kids up the mountain later that afternoon and pulled them behind the truck on sleds. Everyone loved it except for Gemma, who got lots of snow in her face and even tumbled off her sled into a ditch. Hazel seemed to be outside more than in over the next 24 hours, sledding every time anyone wanted to go out, building snowmen, and making forts. She loves it and made good use of the opportunity!


The rest of the Bonner family joined us at the cabin on Friday for our feast. I made cranberry sauce and rolls. The power went out about half an hour before everything was timed to be done, which was interesting! We ended up heating up lots of food on the gas stove and it all worked out. The lights came back on before the sun went down, so no one had to spend a dark evening by flashlight.

The kids worked hard on a Thanksgiving play that they wrote and practiced together. They gave a darling performance. Everyone had memorized their lines (even Gemma!) and they'd made costumes and choreographed where everyone was to stand and come on and off stage. My kids don't usually perform in front of an audience, so it was especially fun for me to see them being comfortably silly in front of everyone.


One of Gemma's lines: "Anybody want some eggs? They're hot and ready and fresh from the pen! Anybody want one?" 


 We spent the entire day Saturday driving home. Holiday/California traffic combined badly with snowfall and our twelve hour drive turned into sixteen. Ug. We were grateful to roll into our driveway a few minutes before midnight. That drive was brutal. But we're going to do it agin in a few weeks, because Beany announced she and Adam are getting married at The Barn New Year's Day! We're super excited for her and to have Adam join the family ... just not looking forward to spending that much time in the van again so soon. 



Friday, November 8, 2019

October 2019

I drove on a couple field trips for Jack's class this month. First we went to Ravenswood, this older property in Livermore with apple orchards and rangers who taught the kids what life was like here in the early 1800's. The kids got to make apple cider, ride a "Bone Shaker" bike, and play old fashioned games. They learned a lot and seemed to enjoy it quite a bit. 




Later in the month, we went to Settler's Day in Sunol, where the kids learned similar things about life in the area a couple hundred years ago. They also went on a hike and saw a gopher snake and a tarantula in the wild.

Jack said to me that he'd never realized how nice it was to have a mom drive on the field trips, that he always thought it was fun to ride in someone else's car, but now he saw how much extra time he got to spend with me during the day and he was really glad I was driving. Melt my heart!




We all enjoyed listening to General Conference. Todd's parents came up for the weekend with a car full of peaches from their trees and watched and listened and learned with us. Hazel worked hard on this puzzle throughout.


We dehydrated peaches and froze peaches and made three different flavors of peach jam (plain, spiced, and peach-plum) over the next week or two. 


Todd and I test drove convertibles on our date night. We tried out the Mini, the BMW, and the Audi. The BMW was our favorite. My heart beat faster, my mouth was even watering as I drove it, it was such a dream come true!

We got caught up in the idea of owning one and brought our kids for a second test drive the next weekend. Jack fell in love, but Hazel thought the four seats were impractical for our five-person family (sadly, so true) and Gemma didn't enjoy it because the sides come up high and she wasn't in her booster seat, so instead of having a wide open experience, she felt she couldn't see anything. The girls' lack of enthusiasm dampened ours, and we have since calmed down.


Gemma lost her other front tooth, so she's had this adorable jack-o-lantern smile all month long.


Our ward Halloween party included a cake contest, which Hazel and Jack each entered. Hazel made a delicious pumpkin bundt cake almost entirely on her own, and the boys made a cool-looking poison apple (chocolate) cake. Happily, they tied for second place!



For a family night activity, Todd taught the kids how to use a fire extinguisher in the kitchen. Hazel was very uncomfortable, but the other two thought it was cool.


 Gemma was awarded Student of the Month for always being kind and helpful to her classmates.


Todd and Hazel planned an ambitious Halloween party to invite friends too. We had a huge group (around 20 kids) over. Besides wearing costumes and eating pizza, we had lots of fun activities for everyone to do. 


Todd and I decided last minute to dress up as VSCO girl and boyfriend. It's some trend that's driving Hazel nuts at school, so we thought it would be funny to play on that. Her friends were impressed, ha!


Everyone tried to keep a balloon from popping as long as possible. Kids love balloons.


We played the egg game, blowing an empty egg shell across the table and trying to get it to not fall next to you. That''s always a crowd pleaser. 


The biggest hit of the night, though, the crowning jewel, was the elephant game. In teams of two, you wore a nylon leg on your head, which had a tennis ball in the toe.


The first teammate tried to knock over apples from the tops of cups, without knocking over the cups. When you got three down and reached the other side, the second teammate raced back, knocking the cups over. It was hilarious to watch and to play!


 We had a huge windstorm one night. Our neighbor's tree fell. Todd came to the rescue with a chainsaw and let the rest of us tag along to help as well. It was satisfying work!



We made our annual visit to the pumpkin patch so the kids could play in the giant corn box. They love to fill each others shirts and see how fat they can get, and they also like to bury each other like they're at the beach.


I went to the eye doctor for the first time in twenty years and got a pair of reading glasses. Apparently, even though I have a hard time reading street signs and restaurant wall menus, I'm slightly farsighted. My eye muscles get worn out from focusing to see things close by and are then tired when I try to look far away. Theoretically, if I wear glasses now when I read or work on the computer, I'll eventually notice that I have an easier time seeing things far away. I'm hoping it really works that way!


The bumpy pumpkins we picked up from the pumpkin patch were too thick to carve, so we painted pumpkins this year. I love how they turned out!


Gemma was a cat this year, as she's been having so much fun observing and mimicking Ginger and Nutmeg. Hazel was her favorite Harry Potter character, Luna Lovegood, and Jack was Dobby the House Elf. 


I haven't decided if I was being brilliant or maniacal, but I roasted giant pans of vegetables for our Halloween dinner before we went out trick or treating.