Tuesday, December 28, 2010

Christmas 2010

This year was the first time we have done Christmas alone. While we missed our families and all the fun we always have with them during the holidays, it was very nice to be able to keep the holiday relaxed and slow-paced, especially for uber-prego me (I am plodding and groaning everywhere I go now).
Highlights of the season include:

Driving past Christmas lights every time we were in the car after dark.

Listening to Christmas music and teaching Hazel about Baby Jesus.

Making gingerbread houses. As we were working on them, Todd mentioned how my brothers fill the insides of their houses with a candy stash for later. Once Hazel heard that, every piece she picked up went inside her house, instead of on it, and there was nothing we could do to talk her out of it.
Having cheese fondue for Christmas Eve dinner. We may have to make this an annual tradition.
Sleeping in until 8:00. Gotta soak that up while we've got it.

Finding the stockings Santa left us. Hazel requested suckers and was so thrilled to find dum-dums (and a candy cane) in her stocking!
Hazel hit present overkill about two-thirds of the way through and refused to open all her gifts. We stashed a few under the bed for later. She had not yet unveiled Santa's Big Deal gift, though, so we waited until after lunch and then led her back to it. A play kitchen! Super huge hit. She plays with it all day, every day.
And making it through Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, and Todd's birthday (the 26th) without going into labor. Phew!

Todd's still really hoping I can "hold him in" and give our baby a January birthday, but dude, I'm dying here. Now that we're past the holidays, I want him OUT! We shall see. Meanwhile, I'm turning into a super grump and Todd thinks it's hilarious. At least he's not getting mad at me for biting his head off. Seriously, there have been a few times in the past few days that I've majorly snapped at him, followed by a still and solemn silence, and then both of us have burst out laughing, wondering where that came from. I'm so miserable.

Monday, December 20, 2010

Hazel Hearts Shepherds

Hazel learned about the shepherds coming to see Baby Jesus at nursery yesterday. It ensued in a day-long preoccupation with shepherds.

"Shepherds come see me?"

"Shepherds hold me night-night?"

"Shepherds come? Pink shepherds."

But the best was when she fell on her bum and got an owie.

"Shepherds kiss my bum bum?"

Saturday, December 18, 2010

Project Complete

Ah. It's so nice to know what you're going to name your baby before they're born. It certainly makes it easier to get ahead on projects. Look what I just finished:Hazel's name letters weren't done until two months after she was born.

Looking at these, I feel relieved. I wasn't sure how to take a craft and make it masculine, but I definitely didn't want Jack to have girly letters. I think it turned out well. Phew.

He and Hazel will be sharing a room. It's slowly metamorphosing into a room for a girl and a boy to share. When we moved Hazel to a big girl bed, she got a green polka dot comforter. Dots are girly, but green is good for all. We're getting there. I think it's just going to have to be okay that there are pink things in there, as well as blue. Here's Jack's small segment of the room:He's going to be in a bassinet in mine and Todd's room for the first little while. By little while, I hope I mean just a few weeks. I do not sleep well sharing a room with a wee one. We"ll have to take it a day at a time, though, and see how all four of us adjust.

Meanwhile, I'm dilated to a two, but hoping to make it til January before Jack's born. We'd like to keep him spaced a little bit from Christmas. So, watch, he'll be born on Christmas Day, right? We'll see.

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Quick Update

Hazel's latest:
Constantly playing in her "house," this huge Amazon box a Christmas gift came inAsking for "no pants" after diaper changes
Stickers, stickers everywhere (but freaks out if she finds one on herself as she's falling asleep!)
Independent shoe changes, rotating through the church shoes, princess shoes, and the rain boots
Perusing the Target gift idea magazine, exclaiming, "I love this!" at the toy kitchens (guess we'd better let Santa know what she's obsessing over...)

Todd's latest:
Promoted to Captain! Yes, you may bow as you approach him.
Being Hazel's favorite, since he has both energy and a lap and I do not
Has high hopes we can SCUBA certify for date night mere days after the baby is born

Angie's latest:
I'm huge and battling heartburn nightly now. Darn it. 19 days to my due date.
I bought a larger ring to wear since I'm too swollen to wear my wedding ring. But it's too big for my ring finger and too small for my middle finger, so it's actually more of an annoyance than a help. Half an hour ago, it slipped right off my finger as I tossed something in the trash. I had to dig through wrappers and yogurt drippings to find it. Not cool.

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

Unmet Expectations

This morning I brought Hazel with me to my ob/gyn appointment. She hasn't come with me to see the "baby doctor" in a few months. When we got to the waiting room, she turned to me, tilted her head to one side, and said matter-of-factly, "Doctor take Jack out. Out Mommy's tummy." I tried to explain to her that we've still got a few weeks until that happens, that we're just going to listen to Jack's heartbeat today and see how he's doing, but Hazel repeated her prognosis in front of the doctor. So... I'm guessing today's doctor's visit was a bit anti-climactic for her.

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

Hazel's Birthday

It's official. Todd and I are the parents of a two-year-old. After I put Hazel to bed and Todd and I made bets on whether or not she'd actually fall asleep, Todd said, "This was the best day of Hazel's life." She's had some pretty good days, but I'm thinking Todd's right. She has been excited about her birthday for weeks now, and it seemed like she loved just about everything about today.

For starters, she was standing up in bed when I peeked in to see if she was awake yet. Standing. Up. That was a first. Usually she's lying down twirling her hair, or sitting on the edge of the bed.

We had scrambled eggs and strawberry shakes for breakfast, two of her favorites. Then, per her request, we made a princess crown for her to wear in honor of her special day.
She soon noticed the "uffly cake" on the counter that I stayed up late last night finishing up. She has been very specific for nearly a month now (ever since we started talking about her birthday) that she wanted a pink butterfly cake for her birthday. Well, she got it. Her two favorite details about it were that it was pink, and that it had candy on it. She asked to be held up to look at it several more times throughout the day.
I think the best part of the day was that Todd was sick, so he stayed home from work. He spent the whole day sleeping on the couch, but it was still nice for Hazel to be able to go over and talk to him and give him kisses, and for him to be around for the whole day instead of just in the evening.

We spent the morning outside, riding Hazel's bike and playing at the park. It's been fairly cold and rainy for the last few weeks, so the nice weather today allowed us to enjoy being outside for the first time in a while. She was riding her bike so fast I almost couldn't keep up at a jog. And I will confess, jogging hurts my body just a wee bit right now. But it was all about Hazel today.

After lunch, we let Hazel open some of her presents. Lucky Ducks turned out to be a huge hit. It is a game with ducks who have shapes on their bottoms. They swim around the board in a circle, quacking up a noisy storm, and then each player picks up one duck and looks at the shape on it. You are each trying to collect all the ducks with your own shape on it. Hazel was super into it. It had cute ducks just the right size for her hands, and she's just starting to get interested in shapes, so I think it'll be a hit for a while.
Unfortunately, it was a bit too big of a hit today. Hazel spent two hours in her bedroom plotting what to do with her ducks when she got out and didn't sleep a wink during naptime. Usually she's a solid three-hour napper. Not so today. The second I told her she could come out of her room, she said, "My ducks!" and ran back to the kitchen table to play with them.

The rest of the afternoon was spent with toys and Daddy. I knew she was going to need to go to bed early, so the afternoon was short. She spent a good part of the next few hours lobbying phone calls and Skype visits from loving family members. And she helped me make teriyaki chicken for dinner, which she scarfed up. We're talking asking for seconds and even thirds!

Then we had cake - she did awesome at blowing her candles out - and opened the rest of her presents. Aunt Kelsi made her day (and, I'm sure, the rest of the week) with a box full of princess supplies. Very soon after dinner, as she began having meltdown after meltdown, we turned on the bathwater and went through our bedtime routine. She was wired. Wired and tired. It took both Todd and me to hold her still enough to even get her pajamas on.

At the very end, she lay in bed while I sang to her. Her heavy eyes drooped shut, and I thought, "She'll be out in two minutes." But then she pried them back open and whispered, "Birthday. Uffly cake." and grinned at me as her eyes twinkled. Good grief.

That was 45 minutes ago. I haven't heard a peep from her, so I'm hoping the Sleep Fairy won tonight's battle. I'll go check after I post this. But I sure am pleased that she loved her birthday so much.

Sunday, November 28, 2010

Easy Baby Book

When Hazel was born, Todd's sister Laura gave me one of the best gifts ever thought of - a beautiful and simple, ready-to-fill baby book. It had a cover page with Hazel's name on it, and then each two-page spread after that was dedicated to one of the first twelve months of Hazel's life. Laura had already done all the cutesy paper/sticker/doo-hickey decorating and had it all ready to go so that all I had to do each month was print out one 5x7 picture of Hazel and fill in a 3x5 card with sweet details of Hazel highlights. It was so easy for me to stay up to date, despite being a tired and sometimes sad single mom with a husband overseas and a baby with a clubfoot that required so much attention. I am so thankful for that gift! It was all done a month or two after Hazel's first birthday, and now she loves to look through the "Hazel Book."
Another great thing about this baby book being so simple, is that it's completely do-able with the follow-up children. I just finished making Jack's. (I knew it had to happen before he comes for it to remain an "easy" project.) Not counting the time I spent shopping for supplies, I spent a grand total of about 4 hours putting the book together. Now it's ready to go when he gets here, and I know I'll be able to keep a record of at least the first year of his life. ;) I had to spread the news because I think these baby books are revolutionary!

Friday, November 26, 2010

Morro Bay Trip

On November 19th, Todd and I celebrated our six-year wedding anniversary.
We left Hazel with a neighbor and went on a casual date. First we picked up some pizza at Vito's Famous Pizza, a joint we've been told is run by the mafia. (!) We had to check it out. The pizza was delicious - New York style - but the place was a little strange. If you go, pay in cash. Just in case. Then we stood in line to watch the new Harry Potter movie on opening night.

The big celebration came this week, though. I'm too far along in my pregnancy to travel far, so we didn't get to go to Utah/see family for Thanksgiving. Todd still had two days off of work, and we opted to take a little trip to honor both the holiday and our anniversary. Once Todd got home on Wednesday afternoon, we piled up in the car and drove south to Morro Bay. We got there just in time to put Hazel to bed and silently read books by lamplight until we were ready to hit the sack.

Thursday we did some hiking and then spent an hour or two at Spooner's Cove in Montana de Oro State Park. What can I say, we gravitate toward the ocean whenever we can! We gathered rocks and threw them in the water. This was perhaps Hazel's favorite activity. We're just glad we found something she was willing to do with her rocks other than fill her pockets til her pants fell down (she's been known to do that before).
Todd and Hazel climbed some big rocks and saw this great view from the other side. I tried to follow them, but couldn't hack it with my rotund body shape and lack of balance.
We planned to have our "Thanksgiving dinner" at whatever restaurant happened to be open during the holiday. Unfortunately for us, it turned out Morro Bay is a small enough town that no one felt the need to stay open for lunch. We improvised at the grocery store and ended up with a white trash feast centered around a rotisserie chicken.
Friday we went to the very little Morro Bay Aquarium and threw fish to the barking seals inside. Hazel really liked that. Then we spent the rest of the morning kayaking around the bay. Hurray, that was a hit with H, too. Look how cute she was, gazing at the water, resting her arm on the kayak and her chin on her fist:
We got close to some seals and touched some kelp floating in the water, and we parked the kayak on a sandbar and hiked to the other side to hang out by the ocean again. When we got back to the mainland, we got some lunch, and then we drove home. Ah, a delightfully successful trip.

And tomorrow we pick up a Christmas tree! I'm stoked. Todd and I have only had a tree twice before. Just one of the small perks of being too pregnant to travel for the holidays, I suppose.

Thursday, November 18, 2010

Today's Wish

I miss my old body. Can't I have it back? I'm not even going to be greedy. I'll take the one I had a year ago, post-baby, with the tummy chub (and the baby snot on my shoulder).
This one aches too much, weighs too much, itches too much, and is only going to get worse. I walk like a gimp and can't fit into some of my maternity clothes anymore. Six more weeks until my due date. I don't want a January baby anymore.
Although I still have to say thanks for no nightly heartburn or charley horses yet. I had both of those before this point when I was pregnant with Hazel, and I would be elated if they didn't pay me a visit this time around.

Monday, November 1, 2010

Weeklong Halloween Festivities

It didn't matter that Halloween landed on Sunday this year and we didn't go trick-or-treating last night. Hazel got plenty of bang for her buck all week long already.

She painted a pumpkin.
And sported her "uffly" costume for days. (It's a fairy costume that I found for five bucks at a fund raiser, but she's convinced it's a butterfly wearing a dress. It's all good.)
We went trick-or-treating Tuesday morning at a moms and tots activity held at an outdoor shopping mall in San Jose. Hazel spent literally every waking moment of the rest of the day sorting her candy.
Most of the rest of the week has been candy-sorting as well, and as you may notice from the remainder of the photos, she firmly held on to a sucker bouquet no matter what else she was doing. The pumpkin basket has gone with us pretty much everywhere, as well.
And we went to our church's Halloween party, where Hazel ate great food, played fun games, and scored more candy during a trunk-or-treat.
We ditched the uffly costume so we could do a family theme, and went as bunny rabbits. It was supposed to be funny because I'm pregnant, but I don't think it really worked all that well since our litter is still so small.
But the tails sure were a hit! (Yes, Todd and I had them, too. I wish I had asked someone to take a group shot of them.)