Monday, June 6, 2011

The Trenches Part 2, and Other Things

We're taking a break from potty training. Classic first child, guinea pig moment, but Todd and I were not casual and positive enough and it turned into a battle of wills, which obviously, we will not win. Hazel refuses to sit on the potty, and is back in diapers for the time being. Blast.Jack hit his five month mark last week. Unbelievable. He has been rocking on hands and knees for a couple of weeks now, and he scoots backwards all over the place. He's even beginning to steer so that he doesn't get stuck under the furniture. He's still just as happy and chill as he was on Day 1. What a great personality!

He's made it quite apparent that he wants what we have at the dinner table, so we've taken to letting him suck on fruit we're eating (apples, plums, etc) and a couple of nights ago he started with the rice cereal. He was quite enthusiastic and did really well, so it's time to dust off the ol' highchair and bring it in.Hazel reached her 2 1/2 year mark last week. She's trying to drop her nap, and I'm fighting it for all it's worth. She spends an hour or more in her room every afternoon, but only sleeps a couple days a week. She loves to role play and changes her identity a dozen times a day AND gets put out if you don't call her by the correct name of the moment. It's very tricky to keep track of.

She's still obsessive compulsive. She does a sweep of her room every nap and bedtime, after we leave. If there's anything in there that's not supposed to be, she shoves it under her door. Once it was a small toy that was under her bed next to the wall. It's a serious white glove sweep. She checks every nook and cranny of the room. Todd thought about hiding under the bed to watch her process, but we decided not to because it'll just get added to the list of things she checks for all the time. Hidden camera, perhaps?

Hazel's getting better and better with Jack. I love to see her playing with him, and the best sound in the world is the two of them laughing together. Lately she's blown on his tummy, asked to hold him again (and did not want to let him go) and climbed into the pack and play to say hello to him after he woke up. Oh yes, Jack sleeps in the bathroom in the pack and play. Naps in my room, spends his nights in the bathroom. We plan to keep it that way until he's more solid on sleeping through the night. I always feed him before I go to bed, and then he usually sleeps until 7 or 8 the next morning, but once or twice a week he's up for a feeding at 5. Another month, maybe, and we'll try putting him back in Hazel's room. We got too tired of Hazel and Jack waking each other up every night.

3 comments:

Megan Bruschke said...

LIfe with two is always an adventure! Love the bathroom/bedroom. I slept in a closet...a very small one....for my first year of life, so I happen to think fabulous people come from unusual sleeping arrangements early in life!

Courtni said...

brett was SUPER easy to potty train, and so i wasn't quite sure what to do when abby came along. i tried it for a short time and realized it wasn't time yet and tried it a few months later and had zero problems. i think you are smart to give it a break until you think she is ready to give it another try. my sister wanted her oldest potty trained so badly that she was literally potty training for MONTHS...not worth the fight!

Kristy said...

I guess you are now feeling what I was feeling when you uses to visit teach me when I just had Kate. Potty Training, what to do, how to do it, what works for what kid etc. etc. I am now working with Caleb and at the same time you are working with Hazel, so I so feeling for you. You think you have it down and then the next kid has a very different personality, so what you did with the 1st is not the same for the next. I feel like a 1st time parent potty training again.
Angie don't get discourage, she will get it and this stage will pass and you will be so grateful when she does get it.
I wanted to thank you for the comment you left me on my blog, Thanks so much, it's something I have been really trying to work on thank you for noticing, it means a lot to me.
I want you to know you are a wonderful mom ,and I know Hazel and Jack are so blessed to have you has their mommy. Keep up all your hard work, they love you and I do to.
Kristy